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*eriem1421
writes:Hi! I'm 15 and I was hoping you help me because I got 2 problems. The first 1 is: there's a boy in my class and he's like madly in love with me but I don't love him! He keeps getting me stuff you know many presents and I couldn't refuse them because it would break his heart!! I just don't want him 2 think he can buy me with all this stuff!! I don't wanna hurt him and I don't wanna give him a wrong hope! What should I do?The second and the biggest one is: I really love this boy let's call him 'wb' I saw him staring at me many times and even my friends did, he tried to talk 2 me because he knows 1 of my friends but every time he comes my way I walk away! I just get too intense when he's around me and I'm too shy! It's my frist love!!!!!! I'm really not used to these things! His friends smile to me when I pass next 2 them and they even called him once so loud when they saw me!! I was wondering if you've got any advice so I can calm down when he comes to talk 2 my friend and not run away and leave my friend??!!! btw he's never had a real girlfriend and he's the shy type too!! I think he's afraid of rejection since I never said yes 2 any of the boys who asked me out before!!!How can I show him my interest without my cheeks turning so red??? I hope you reply! thx n bye!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): if u like so much just go up to him an talk about anything. Find out how him really like an if u still love him ask him out or for his #. If u ask for his # thats mean that u r really life him and u what to go out with him.
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reader, niki20  +, writes (7 April 2009):
 As your answer to question 1, i have been there. I truthfully loved getting the presents but didn't love him. I just told him one day that i can't be with him , but in a nicer way. I would just sit down calmly and tell him that you are not into him, it may break his heart but it needs to be heard. Tell him that you want to be his friend, only if you do. Hell have to understand that he can't love and not be loved back it just doesn't work.For you 2nd question, guys think when girls blush is cute. Don't walk away it gives him the impression that you don't like him. Try counting to 10 and breathing out very slowly sounds cliché but you need a way to relax without spreading a yoga mat on the hallway floor:). Shy is stoppable, it gives a guy a hint of "insecurity" not saying that you are., You are still very young and if you beat the shyness now you'll be a butterfly. just talk to him about things you guys can relate to. Even if its cheesy it will make you 2 laugh and ease the tension between you two. Do you both like football? Have the favourite food? Let us know how it goes good luck.
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