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Leaving for the military in 4 months, start a relationship?

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Question - (29 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 October 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Ok...I just want opinions on what you guys would do.

There is this girl im really diggen,right, problem is, in 4 months I leave for the military. I've been just playing it cool with her because I personally feel it would be selfish to start a relationship with someone at this point in my life,you know? in-case things did happen to get serious or something, it wouldn't be cool just to take off right? but at the same time,man, it just seems right...idk..i've actually, no joke gave myself a huge headache over thinking about this...anything will help. thank you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2009):

I'm on the other side- I've been seeing someone that leaves in Jan for the military and we act like a couple, and we have a lot of fun together, but we're both hesitant to call it official because he is leaving soon.

I think for now you should just enjoy her company. You both know that you're leaving soon, and if you don't want to make it too serious then be clear about that :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2009):

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yes very true. thank you.

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