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writes:I am very confused and Idk what to do! My long distance bf and I have been dating for about eight months now and we plan on meeting this summer. He lives in Denmark and I live in Canada. Anyways when we first met everything was great, sparks were flying, he would make me feel special, stay up to talk to me, etc. Since a few months ago we have been arguing more, he replies late to me now, we used to skype everyday now we skype once in a month because he says we are taking a break from it.. it makes me sad and feel like he doesnt love me anymore and I asked him a couple of times and he said he does and I asked him if he wants to breakup with me, but his answer is always no , and whenever we argue we get back together because both of us dont want to breakup, but it is bothering me on how we dont on skype anymore even though we talk on msn everyday. I just feel like he doesnt care or love me anymore and he says if he didnt he woudnt be with me. I feel very sad and confused, should I break up with him or stay and try to explain how we need to communicate more, etc . When we arent arguing its a very good relationship, but him not wanting to communicate and stuff worries me plz help
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011): Thx for the advice everyone, we havent web cammed yet , but we will next month so I guess that would help :) again thx for all the answers!
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reader, lynxy  +, writes (21 January 2011):
 well, I have been in a long distance relationship for more than one and a half year and I can tell you for sure it is great when you use a webcam so if you used to and now he doesn't want it there might be something wrong because you always want to watch the other person online there is a big difference between everyday and once a month. Please try not to argue with him it's better you talk to him about it that you would like to watch his face often try to use sweet words remind him that you love and miss him, a distance relationship is very difficult to hold and you should be patient with him make him feel he can trust you then he might tell you if there is something wrong, maybe he's feeling a bit bored buy new clothes and model with them on webcam, if there are new things to se and try he might want to talk often in skype. Goodluck, be patient.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (21 January 2011):
 I'm more concerned over all the arguing, you know. What is THAT all about??
Perhaps you could tell us a little more......however, I believe the arguments are more likely to be the reason he isn't using Skype so much, rather than shyness.....try to drop them and find pleasant things to talk about! (Unless its a real serious matter, and not mere "nitpicking."
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 January 2011):
 Well if you both still talk to each other on msn everyday then i guess in a way you are still communicating every day. Could it be possible that he is a little bit shy and that is why he doesnt like using skype? Many people dont like talking in to web cameras they feel a little in secure doing it this might be the reason why he doesnt use skype so often. Maybe bring that up and ask him what the real reason is. Goodluck.
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