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writes:Im really confused about my boyfriend. We have been in a LDR FOR 6 months. I had not seen him since february until he came and stayed with me on tuesday. I was expecting it to be amazing but Im really disappointed. We had sex, and the first time was really passionate, which is what you would expect when you havent seen someone for 5 months, but the other times (2) had to be instigated by myself and he did not seem that interested. In fact, the second time he even stopped half way through and said he was shattered and that the relationship wasnt all about touching. Fair enough, but I hadnt seen him for 5 months and I was expecting fireworks. He went home today. I tried to seduce him this morning but he wouldnt have it. Ive been left frustrated and feeling like an idiot. I just dont get it. He was fine, always hugging me, kissing me, cuddling me but when it came to sex he didnt want to. Before he went to work away, he was always the one that instigated sex and he would always want alot of it. I just dont understand whats happened but I feel like finishing with him because I clearly cant make him happy.
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (14 July 2011):
i would maybe consider the fact that maybe he is getting it elsewhere sorry to upset you i would talk to him tell him you need to know what is going on this is the problem with ldr as you never know what there getting upto
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (14 July 2011):
 Hello,
I just got suspicious here and wondered if he had another girl. I don't know this and I'm only being suspicious. It's just that he seemed keen for the first time but then pulled back. I wonder did he get a touch of guilt or confusion?
But please, I'm only suggesting this as an option to consider.
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reader, GeeGee255  +, writes (14 July 2011):
 It sounds like the guy has major issues that have nothing to do with you. I think it is time to cut your loses and move on.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (14 July 2011):
 Maybe it was just simply that he was really tired and just wanted to enjoy spending time with you relaxing. The only thing that you can do here is talk to him and tell him your worries. Explain to him how it has made you feel and see what he has to say.
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