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writes:Hello all,I may be reading into this too much, but I thought I would look for insight from other people. I am in a LDR (In different countries)with a guy things have been great, in fact more than great. We talk every single day for hours on end and still can't get enough of each other!I'm more than happy with him and he is more than happy with me. Recently, he hasn't spoken to me, it's quite unlike him, a week has past and still no reply whatsoever, I have tried getting in contact with him but no luck. :|I'm not sure what is up either, I keep thinking maybe it's family issues or that something is wrong ect. I don't know whether I should be alarmed by this. It's unlike him to just disappear without so much of a message or whatever. Thanks for any replies. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you, for your replies.
No word from him just yet, but I shall let you know how it all goes.
Fingers crossed, it's all good.
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reader, SonOfMan  +, writes (23 December 2011):
 I was once a wimp when I was going through a difficult personal time and unfortunately put my x through the same thing. Not proud of it but sometimes things like that happen. I wasn't cheating (still didn't make it ok) but I came to my senses.
Maybe just leave a message with a deadline, not in a harsh way but just to clarify your concern for the relationship.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (22 December 2011):
 Yes you should be alarmed - if he has gone from speaking to you every day to nothing in a week, then you are right to be worried.
But seen as you are in different countries there is not a lot you can do, you just have to wait and see. If you still havent heard from him in another week or so, it is pretty safe to say he has broken up with you and is just a coward so didnt want to tell you. Some people are wimps when it comes to breaking up with their partner, they cant face explaining themselves so they simply stop contacting their partner and will ignore their partner's messages and calls.
I hope this isnt the case for you, but it doesnt sound good I'm afraid. Wait another week, and then if you've still not heard from him move on.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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