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anonymous
writes: i used to like this guy last year but he didnt really like me then. so i stopped liking him,but now hes telling me that he likes me. should i start liking him again? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (31 October 2006):
Well if liking someone is like a light switch, then flip it if you feel like it.
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reader, stina +, writes (31 October 2006):
Hi Anonymous,
If you like him, then I say that's great. But I don't think it would be a wise decision to "force" yourself to like him. If you do that, it might cause a heap of problems in the future like resentment, etc.
My suggestion is to be friends with this guy, and if you start to like him, then you can see where that would take you.
Take care.
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