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writes:Are looks more important to women than personality? Or vice versa? I've heard looks are 30% and personality is 70% important to a women. What you guys think? As many posts as possible would be great! Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, ladybug  +, writes (24 July 2007):
 of course personality!! but dont set aside the power of looks, coz this is where you make your first impressions.
but for a relationship to last, both of you should have a good personality.
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reader, DIE-romantic. +, writes (23 July 2007):
 Personality is what makes a successful relationship, a guy with a great sense of humour, witty comments & whos tender and loving, thats the sort of guy i'd like. I dont judge by looks, its pointless and gets you nowhere.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2007): In my eyes a good personality makes a person look good. For example: I like a guy with a sense of humor, so I may look across the room and be attracted to a man's smile. The smile is great, but the reason he is smiling is what I'm attracted to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007): Looks are an accident. Everyone has beauty. It's the good personality part that is harder to find. Someone sweet who makes you laugh trumps over someone rude who's only quality is their aesthetics.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007): Personality over looks every time. Let me put it this way, as I always say: you can be with someone because they are very attractive, sexy, hot or whatever but not really have much of or a nice personality. When you get old however and both your looks have somewhat faded to wrinkles and all that, you are left with a dull or unpleasant person, who is no longer so hot to look at. If you chose a plainer person with a sweet nature, kind heart and a sense of humour, when you are old the faded looks won't matter, because they still have that witty charm you went for in the first place. Think about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007): Most ladies would go for the looks. However personality is a big thing for women too. Both are extremely important. For me I go for both. However, a kind and a bubbly personality is a big plus for me. If a man has a bad attitude or a poor personality then I would just walk off, and forget about him. Most women go for a warm hearted, and kind personality and good looks.
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reader, penta  +, writes (22 July 2007):
 You'll get as many different answers to this questions as there are ladies who answer. To me, looks are the initial attraction, but without personality it goes nowhere. And after 10 years with my husband, I can tell you looks (both his and mine) go but we still love each other.
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reader, candy00s +, writes (22 July 2007):
 I dont think you can go purely on looks - just cos i person is good looking doesnt mean that they are necessarily a nice person.
I think that there needs to be an attraction there and you can be attracted to a persons personality.
I dont judge by a way a person looks i like to know the person.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (22 July 2007):
 I would say chemistry is more important than looks. What is good looking to one woman might not be good looking to another. A woman likes a man to look nice yes, but she goes for personality too, how a guy treats her, if he respects her and has time to LISTEN to her when she feels low. If he has all of these qualities and there is chemistry too (he doesn't need to be a looker) then she will be more than happy with him.
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