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30-35,
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writes:I have this issue.....im 18 and single i havent had a boyfriend 10 months(still a virgin) and i feel really lonely and unatractive.I know i shouldnt be relying on a man 4 my self esteem but i have to wonder is the problem me?.....I dont know if this will help but im 5ft and 1Inch in height and weigh 11 and half stone......Im really worried and dont know what to do.
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reader, Christinaa  +, writes (29 June 2010):
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your help and advice
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reader, Christinaa +, writes (29 June 2010):
Its ok to feel needed though theres nothing wrong with wanting a nice relationship with someone, and just because you want a man doesnt mean your dependent on him. its just the way life goes everyone needs a partner. But anyways im the same height as you so i dont think it has anything to do with your height and or weight. Dont feel any less of a person just because of your situation.
Me and my friends do what we call "man hunting"
we get all prettied up and go to the most spots where cute guys hang out and your 18 you have sooo much time so dont even stress. Think of about 3 places where guys you would be interested in hang out. then grab a friend or 2 and get all beautiful and go to some of those spots and flirt and just have fun
i hope that helped good luck :)
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 June 2010):
You know what the most unattractive thing in a woman is? Lack of esteem. The problem is not your height, your weight, your looks or anything like that. Your problem is that you're coming across as lacking in self esteem and confidence. Good men will smell a lack of esteem, and will run a mile. Get that self esteem of yours back on track, focus on your own life and you'll find that men come to you. Just don't sit there with no esteem and a sense of desperation. Men will run.
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