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writes: hey my bf keeps trying to snog me and i do want to its just i dont have a clue and evry one says go wiv him but i tried and went like rong i kinda just pretended i needed the lo help plz lots of love xxmemexx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2007): i agree mee i never kissed any one properly till i was 13 but i rushed into things but everyone does do it differnetly ! just try u mite like it huni x have you got msn hun ?
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reader, Daizee +, writes (6 January 2007):
Hello Sweetie,
I had the same anxiety when I was your age and a bit older. I am much older now and have been told many times that I am a fantastic kisser so hang in there girl.
I put pressure on myself because of what my friends said and it ended up putting me off for years and I stayed indoors reading whilst they were all going through their teenage romances. I know it's easier said than done sometimes but be your own person, do what you want to do, when you want to, if your boyfriend is understanding and waits you may find that before long you will want to kiss him and be alot more relaxed about it. If your boyfriend is not understanding he is not worth it - at your age or any age. Don't worry this worry will get better and go away I promise you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2007): Aww, you're so young. You need to wait to find a nice caring gentle and patient guy who doesn't make you feel pressured and who lets you do it when you're ready.
At your age you get a lot of pressure from your "friends" don't listen to these idiots, or you'll quite possibly end end up a single mum in the next couple of years. Be your own person and in the meanwhile practice kissing on your hand or something.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2007): hey
im crap at this too ive never had a real kiss before but my ex bf did it all wrong, but it wasnt reeli wrong it just wasn't what other ppl do so this proves every 1 duz it different so i wudnt worry x x x x
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reader, meme +, writes (2 January 2007):
meme is verified as being by the original poster of the question ps: your all so nice xxmemexx
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reader, meme +, writes (2 January 2007):
meme is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthx but 4 the person that mentiond sex im not planing on that well thx xxmemexx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2007): OOps, my bad, you said snogging, I am not from the UK, does this mean passionately kissing only?
Well, if you want to kiss him, then be careful not to get too carried away so that you end up doing more than you intended....remember, you are in charge of his hands, just tell him no, I don't want to go any farther....he will stop and respect you for it...
But mostly, just try to relax, it does not matter if you are not too experienced, just follow his lead and you will instinctively know what to do and what feels right will usually just take place...I don't know how to write in words the way to a great kiss, but possibly you will get some better answers than what I have given you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2007): Hi, what is it you need help with exactly?
You write that your boyfriend keeps trying to snog you and you can't get out of seeing him tomorrow, and you want to snog him too, but it all went wrong...
Sweetheart, please tell your boy friend NO.
You are waaaaay to young to be having sexual intercourse with this boy.
I know that your body may tell you differently because your hormones are rageing, but you will feel really sad and bad about yourself if you do.
First off, boys your age are way too immature to give you what you need emotionally when having such intimate encounters...in fact once the deed is done there is almost a 100% chance that he won't even talk to you anymore becasue he won't be able to handle his emotions, and he will probably feel bad about you that you let him do this to you.
Your body and your virginity is a precious gift, it is not to be used as power over boys or to make yourself feel older, or to keep a boyfrieind, it is a gift that you will give when you are truly in love with a man, not a boy, and when he has become your best friend first.
Now, for the physical issues....your body is not mature enough to handle sex either, you run the risk of getting cervical cancer if you have sex with multiple partners before the age of about 20, (and it will be multiple partners if you start at the age you are)...this is a deadly disease...you run the risk of early pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases....until you are financially able to support a child, you should not think of risking a pregnancy in my opinion.
So, I hope I helped, tell him no, if he really wants to be your boyfriend he will respect you for your decision, just the fact that he is pressuring you to have sex is not a good sign, he is a horny teenage boy and he can use masturbation to control and relieve his urges and so can you...
take care of yourself, please....and by the way, if you did have sex, it won't be any good anyway, you have plenty of time to become sexually active, go out and enjoy being a girl, it goes by way too fast!
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reader, Abacadaba  +, writes (1 January 2007):
 kissing is like riding a bike, practise makes perfect, just let him lead and you will get used to it, theres no way any1 can tell you how to kiss, every1 does it differnetly, so you gotta get used to how they do it
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reader, mitta +, writes (1 January 2007):
Most peoples first kiss was a bit disasterous, I know mine certainly was! All you can do is practise and you'll get better at it. I'm 19 and kissed a few guys but when it comes to kissing someone new i still get a bit nervous!
You'll get better with time xxx
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reader, meme +, writes (1 January 2007):
meme is verified as being by the original poster of the questionplz help i need help lol
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