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writes: me and my best friends boyfriend were goin to my friends house and as we stopped at the park to sit down we kissed and now i kind of fancy him and i dont no what to do and to top that my friend wants me to choose out of her or her boyfriend please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2005): My mates boyfriend like me. and dump her to go out with me. we got dared to snog but he had befor but i had not. i found it not right. but maybe i will soon. but dont fill guilty!
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (27 January 2005):
 Hi there,I'd be choosing your best friend, and put the mistake with her boyfriend right out of your mind.It's understandable that you'd be confused right now, when this kiss seemingly came out of nowhere, but there are two important points to think about here. First is that he's your best friend's boyfriend. He's not yours. Unless they break up first, and he's free to establish a new romance with you, you should keep right out of reach. To think of it another way, if you went over to your friend's house and her new puppy wanted to play with you, just because you were new in the house, would you feel it was OK to take the dog home with you? No, of course you wouldn't. Just because it seems to like you doesn't make it all right to steal it. The same principle applies here, but we're talking about a young man who's confused about which girl he's attracted to, rather than a frisky pup.The second important point you need to bear in mind is that this boy has shown that he lacks loyalty. He really doesn't show a lot of respect to his girlfriends by kissing their best friends, does he? If you and he were to get together (assuming your best friend had already broken up with him), you'd never really be sure that he wasn't kissing some *other* girl in the park, when you thought he only liked you.All things considered, even though this was a bit of a thrill, I think you can do heaps better than to alienate (and possibly lose) your best friend, just for a boy who kisses every girl he gets within a lip's reach of.Anyway, you'll feel better about yourself if you're true to your best friend. There are lots of boys in the world, but not many good friends.
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