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writes:Me and my girlfriend had recently progressed our relationship to taking off our clothes.But when I was gaping at her,she laughed at me.She said "Your tiny".I'm a virgin but she isn't.I measured myself and I am a little over 4.5 Inches. I have been extremely insecure ever since. She doesn't seem to see anything wrong with what she said.But how could she laugh at me and saying I'm tiny?I find that cruel and extremely hurtful. I was wondering if my Penis is normal size?I also prefer or like women that don't shave their pubic hair completely,Is that normal as well?Thanks for the help!
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reader, ams +, writes (4 January 2009):
 Your size if fine! I read somewhere that average is about 5.5inches. You're only 1 inch off and like "western3589" said, you're probably not done growing! Besides its like my grandfather always said;
"I may not reach bottom, but i sure tear the hell out of the sides!" lol
Women can only feel about 3-4 inches up inside the vagina anyway.
That was very rude for her to say that. That would be like calling her fat, or loose. Its very hurtful. And really she isnt dumb, everyone knows that men dont want to be small. And to have your girlfriend of all people say that to you is what hurts the most, I would think. try talking to her about it, telling her how she made you feel. Dont be spiteful about it, just calm and understanding of what she has to say and hopefully she will return the favor.
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reader, daletom +, writes (4 January 2009):
I'm with the majority on several points here -
1. Contrary to popular myths (which your G/F may be sufficiently uninformed to actually believe), it does NOT take a large erection to satisfy a woman sexually.
2. You may be smaller than "average" (whatever THAT means!) but you are NOT "tiny"!
3. Your body - including your penis - has probably not yet reached its full adult size. (For some guys, this doesn't happen until they are almost 20.)
4. Anybody who would say that to you is probably NOT a good choice for your first sex partner. Or, perhaps, ever to be your sex partner.
5. It is currently fashionable to shave pubic hair. Personally, I actually find that a turn-off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): Dude, you're all right, dont worry about your penis size.. All guys are a little insecure of what girls think of their penis, dont worry. About the pubic hair, it's not weird, some guys like it, it's kinda sexy.
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (4 January 2009):
 You're still growing to say the least.. And even 4.5 is good enough.. A woman's vagina is sensitive only upto 3 inches.. You're 1.5 inches extra capable..
Size does not play that big a role buddy.. Atleast 95 percent girls don't mind even a small prick until you can use it effectively..
You're not Tiny.. Maybe your girlfriend slep with horses before..
G'day
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reader, Yos  +, writes (4 January 2009):
 What she said is cruel and hurtful. Also, it's very normal to like some pubic hair.
Your girlfriend sounds insensitive and rather rude. It's really not all about who's had sex and penis size: good relationships are about connection and communication. You might want to ask yourself if you really want to be with this girl, especially if she continues like this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): Do you really want to be with someone who was so hurtful towards you? I mean, if someone laughed at my body he'd be out of the door before he knows it!
Your penis is still growing (you're still a teenager, remember.)You're normal, so please don't worry about yourself! And I think you should reconsider having sex with your girlfriend, if I'm being honest here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): She's young, you were properly the smallest guy she's been with and it properly just slipped out. Hopefully she's learnt her lesson and it will not speak out loud any of her thoughts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): your girlfriend is immature and is insensitive towards your feelings. communication is key here... let her know how you feel. it isn't about the size. it's all about how you use your tool.
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reader, Western3589 +, writes (3 January 2009):
 Google penis size by age,race, hair color, ethincy. All those can determine size, see if yours matches up
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