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writes:Well heres the story...Been going out with this girl for 7 months broke up recently and her best friend is my best friends girlfriend. Me and my best mate have been wanting to both break up with them for ages. So i broke up with mine....he has not yet...but we always say to everyone that we have sex and do all stuff and that and everyone thinks we r gay together...even our girlfriend and ex think we are gay. Starting to fall in love with him and i dont know wat to do or say...we have a great friend ship and my ex girlfriend still wants a relationship and i dont....ive never thought of myself to be gay but i really do love him.please explain and help thanks
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reader, carrie212  +, writes (7 June 2008):
 You're obviously confused. I think you need to figure out what you want before you go making any serious decisions. The love you have for your best friend might be a different kind of love. You could just care a lot about him because you guys are such good friends. But if you think you might be IN love with him you need to find out what he's thinking and how he feels. He may feel the same.. but then again he could just be joking around because i know a lot of guys that are just really comfortable with their sexuality and dont mind saying things like that. Have you ever had a serious converstaion with him about how you feel? Bottom line is you need to talk to him and figure out what you want. Just remember in the end thats the most important thing. And if you are gay, there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. Its whatever makes you happy.kay good luck!
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