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writes: my bf says this girl is just a friend from a long time ago, i saw his emails with her and he never mentioned anything about me or having a gf, but when i asked him he said that she knows, but i don't think she really knows that i exist. One of the emails she asks him to go out for drinks, if she did know wouldn't she ask his gf to come a long too? The first time he emailed her he said his dad only gave him her email and didn't give him her number, then he gave his phone number and told her to call or text him. Do u think he's trying to get to know her and/or see if shes better? He keeps telling me that he's not trying to meet girls or trying to do anything with them, and not trying to hook up with them. Should I really believe him or does it sound like he's really trying to get to know her? She also asked if he had a myspace page and he didn't reply her on that, i feel like he's doing that so that she doesn't find out about me. How would i find out that she does know that i exist and if my bf is just lying to me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYea he knows because i asked him if he could show it to me, well first he was lying to me that he wasn't having any contact with her and i told him to prove it and he really didn't want to show me but finally did later on.
Well i don't know but some of the emails looks like either one or both are into eachother and then now shes telling him where she wants to go out of town, to me it seems shes like hinting him to take her there, she said _______ would be nice, don't you think? Does that really not sound like shes trying to hint him to take her on a trip or just somewhere? If she knew he had a gf she wouldn't say something like that right? Or does it really "just" look like shes telling him where she would like to go? Its just like asking "starbucks sounds nice doesn't it?" u wouldn't just go "oh yea starbucks sounds nice" and then not go and get coffee and just leave it at that, u know what i mean?
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reader, cd206  +, writes (17 January 2007):
 If this girl is just a friend to your boyfriend he doesn't have to tell her you exist if he doesn't want to and it's no reflection on your relationship, just that he doesn't feel it's relevant to tell her, probably because he's not interested in her that way and she's not into him that way either. However he's said he's told her and you should trust him on that. Just because she hasn't acknowledged it in her emails back doesn't mean she doesn't know. Also does your boyfriend know you read his emails? You'll want to be careful about that because he deserves some privacy whatever the outcome of his email relationship with this girl.
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