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36-40,
*uddle me
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for five years. I have a huge jealousy problem. Everyone here will think I am crazy, and I am a little, but you have to understand realising the problem is the first step, but I am having a hard time getting over it. The reason I am crazy, is because I am not jealous of him with other girls, I am jelous of the realationship he has with his mother and his sister. When he is with them he is not the same, he acts different in the sense that he is like a little kid again with his family, and it urks me to a teeee, and I do not know how to stop it, please help me! It is causing so many problems in our relationship, I love his mom and sister, I just dont like how they are with him... baby him (Its almost like I feel thats my job, and they take it away from me when they see him) PLEASE HELP
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (19 September 2008):
 Hi Hunny
Its ok dont panic, Yep this is something you have to understand and deal with but you will sweetheart, Its a good thing that he has a loving and caring family and he loves them to bits but this does not mean he loves you less, When you see how he is with his mum and his sister you can be reasured he has been brought up with tons of love and will show this to you freely because of that. I no its easy for me to say dont worry as Im not there and I also no how this can make you feel but its not being done in a nasty way directed at you, They are not all over him and nasty to you are they? Ive been through that with my ex mother inlaw she was horrible to me in front of my husband and because of this he thought it ok to do the same, She thought it funny and you could see the glint in her eye when of course I may have got upset when she was cruel to me behind his back and I tryed to tell him but of course it was me in the wrong...Thats all over now as he finally did see this, But it sounds as if your b/fs mum and sister just want to take care of him while he is there and if you ask me he is lucky to have you as you want to look after him as well so he has found a good girlfriend in you love...You care alot for his mum and sister so it also sounds like your a happy family unit and you really cant wish for more than that sweetheart...Imagine if it were the complete opposite and his family were cruel to him and he was always upset by this depressed and really unhappy..Would you rather have a happy content b/f who loves you and has a great family or a miserable b/f who was unhappy all the time? Sometimes we get strange feeling like this because we feel we may loose the one we love but your not loosing your b/f to his family your gaining a lovely family that so obviously care a great deal...I HOPE THIS HELPED LOVE TAKE CARE WITH HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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