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female
age
41-50,
*nita26
writes:Yesterday me and my boyfriend was chatting in general like we always do then he started talking about how he used to pull girls without even trying and that one of his mates would be desperate and come over to chat her up to but would reject him and that the girl would only be interested in him. Then he said I should not tell u this but this one girl I pulled it was amazing it like he sounded like he won first prize and couldnt believe his luck. I felt really upset because we been together for nearly year and I really thought we understood one another. I felt like **** and lost my self confindence why is he with me if he thinking like that about other girls. I must not mean anything to him.I got a few issues goin on and am trying to cope with them as best as i can. He also had a death in the family that why I am just keeping quite and dont want to cause a argument. He knows I have been upset for a while and that's the last thing I wanted to hear. He was happy and boasting about it. I know this may seem silly but when we first meet we had a fantatsic relationship he was so understanding and caring but it true after being wiv a girl for a long time the guy doesnt bother as much because it felt like to me he was just out to impress me. I am two minds if I want to be with him because he always given me mixed signals when he wiv me he be all over me one moment and the next he would seem distant. I know he a guy who shouldnt have to explain himself to me all the time but I feel in my heart this relationship is over as the connection we once had was strong but now it gone stale. I just so confused please help Reply to this Question
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (11 September 2008):
 by the looks of it the communication is gone people go through relationships and in the begining were very forward on communication but as time goes on it dwindles out..you need to talk to him in a calm manner about the problems you are having and see if between the two of you it can be resolved. it seems their are mixed signals and your trying to find out but your not a mind reader.. i think you both need to step up to the mark and see if you can resolve it all and if not then go your seperate ways but atleast give it a chance and see how it goes.. hope that helps aphexy xx
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