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I've told him I want to end it but he won't let me, he said he is going to take me somewhere and I can't come home or he'll rape me!

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Question - (18 June 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 19 June 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *abiie-114 writes:

I've told him I want to end it but he won't let me, he said he is going to take me somewhere and I can't come home or he'll rape me! I want to run away but my problem will just follow why can't i run away from my problem?

i can't talk 2 my mum she isnt listening i've told her what he keeps saying but she said im just making it all up!

please help before i do something stupid?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2007):

PLEASE CALL YOUR LOCAL AUTHORITIES

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2007):

I'll add my voice to the chorus telling you to call the police. This guy sounds like a bastard, don't let him get away with threatening rape.

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (18 June 2007):

flower girl agony auntBabe you need to call 999 NOW tell the police everything that you have told us and they will deal with person and you will be safe do not leave it any longer.

Take care you know where we are if you need to talk.xx.

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A female reader, stina United States +, writes (18 June 2007):

stina agony auntHi there,

I responded to your other post, but was unclear of what exactly he was planning on doing.

Call the police. Now. Tell them what he said and ask to be escorted home by an officer. I'm sure once you talk with the police, they will help you out and this guy will NOT be bothering you again.

Take care and be safe.

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A female reader, darksecretangel United Kingdom +, writes (18 June 2007):

darksecretangel agony auntOK first of all who is this he you are referring to and when did this all start happening .

Secondly my advice to you is if you cant tell your mum, tell someone who you can trust or phone the police and tell them. Forcing you to do something is wrong !!! and Threatening you with rape is even more wrong. Hunny you cant run away from your problems they will just after all come back to haunt you. BE STRONG, suicide or anything like that is just a waste and should never be considered. You have a great life ahead of you and this man should not be ruining your life at the moment.

There are many websites and organizations such as child line that help children and teenagers through problems like this. Get as much help as you can thats all i can suggest.

GOOD LUCK AND KEEP STRONG

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2007):

SWEETY,

Im listening and i believe you ok, you need to stop talking to this man and can you talk to someone in the family that will listen, or a school teacher if you still are at school, no one can take you anywere against your will, and if he has said he will rape you then you should contact the police as this is a very serious matter...That no one should have to deal with let alone at your age, You dont say really very much of what is going on and what have you told your mum? Is this man a boyfriend love? this is a very worring situation mail me if you need to talk some more please dont do anything silly now im sure something can be worked out im here for you to talk to ok xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx PLEASE TAKE CARE AND TALK TO SOMEONE xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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