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writes:Hi i could really use some help. I am a teen girl who has been in a relationship with a guy for a year and 6 months. Lately i have this thing for liking girls, but not like my friends and stuff. I like to watch girls kiss and have sex on youtube. What is wrong with me and how can i get over it? I'm very happy with my boyfriend and i truely love him. Reply to this Question
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reader, ach +, writes (21 July 2008):
 srry i wasn't logged in im aubrey
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008): hi 16 going on 17
im haveing the same exact problem...i've been with my boyfried for a year and 4 months i've just done the same thing you do.. im not attracted to my friends but im confusd to but i just keep doig what im doing till i kno i'm actull bi or lesbian or whatever...if you have any other ideas you should let me know..
aubrey
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): Your young, your at the age where you should be exploring your feelings and not worrying about the baggage you have if older. I think this woman thing is something you have to do alone, maybe go out there and meet a girl, see what it's like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): Ahh, hormones. Is there anything they can't do?
Look there is no real way of stopping feelings. The only thing you can do is learn to manage them effectively.
You need to make a decision, and stick to it no matter how hard it becomes to do so.
You can break with the guy and experiment with sapphic love if you choose to... or you can conciously decide that you love this guy more and no matter how great the desire to experiment is, no matter how much you might want to try being with another woman, you stick with your man.
Elsewise you can suggest bringing in another woman for experimentation purposes... at your age I doubt he'd refuse, but this often causes more problems then it solves.
Not always, but most times.
Flynn 24
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (14 July 2008):
 You're a girl who's still developing and your hormones are going everywhere. It's ok to feel this way as long as you don't act upon it. Also, you just said that you like to watch girls kiss and have sex, but you never said you wanted to do it. I think are just curious about this kind of things and you find yourself fasinated by it.
You know that you love your boyfriend and you're happy with him. Just keep that in mind every time. Good luck.
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