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anonymous
writes: I am gay and have just come out I have never had a proper boyfriend could anyone help me out please ? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2006): gay men treat each other like cattle at market. if you want to retain your inocence then be aware that a lot of men want a one time fuck. I'm gay and have only had one relationship which lasted a month and i'm 21. My problem is i keep falling for sexy friends who dont want a man. beware of sexy strait men. anyway i digress.
go to gay bars and look on the net. It is not an easy task
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2006): If a gay club sounds too daunting (it was for me!) then a gay dating site might be the way to go.
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reader, Helen1986 +, writes (4 September 2006):
All I can say is if you want to meet a man go to a gay bar or use gay chat rooms to meet people. When you meet someone take your time in getting to know him before you sleep with him. Don't feel pressured into doing anything if you don't want to. Also do not listen to people when they say how do you know your gay if you have never been with a man. Because you know yourself better than anyone. You cannot help the way you feel, and there is nothing wrong with being gay at all. I wish you luck and hope that you find a nice decent bloke who makes you feel comfortable to sleep with. Take care
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