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writes:i have done something really bad and am regretting it deeply.my cousin wanted to create a fake profile on facebook so she could see what the profile of a guy she liked. but so it wouldnt seem too fake - we made 4 profile - she made 2 i made 2.she added my mate to look like we have friends. my mate doesnt know its a fake profile.i msged him on my fake profile - bn flirtous to play jokes on him - but as my fake profile always told him that this is fun and nothing can ever transpire from this.we msged each other - he gave his number - but told him i can never call him.then i told him i got back together wiv my boyfriend - jsut lies - he told he was confused - its along story the ending his feels like shit...i mean really badly - he is really hurt, i never seen him like this, but he obviously doesnt know its me. this was yestwell i been calling/textin him this week as the real me and he hasnt replied - so today i call him again coz i feel bad - i cried last nite coz of the way i have treated him - its my fault should never have done what i did - i tried to explain to him as fake me that we cant be friends and cant spk to him - but he kept on msgin telling he trusts me even though i done all this to me...this morn i read few msgs he left for fake me - he called me patronising, fake and shows no repect but then he tells me im really sweet and he feels really down. after i read all that i called him and he didnt asnwer so i text him asking how he is - and if everytin ok coz he hasnt replied to me all week. but i would never let on what i know or what i have donehe hasnt replied or called me backso i msged him as real me on facebook asking him if everythin is ok - he knows that i always msg him until i know his oki still aint herd from himso i sent him msg from fake me - and told him to hate me and not punish himself for what i have done to him.the thing my mate is also the guy i love - he knows i have feelings for him - but we decided we would be friends - and he still talks to me and tells me thingshow do i correct what i have done wrong - do i wait till he contacts me or shall i contact him again tomorrow - i really want to know if his okhe means the world to meim sorry if i confused u - any advise would be great please
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (9 August 2008):
 im a little confused - the guy that you did all this to is liked by your cousin and you??
you are in the 22-25 age gap so im assuming thats your age. this was a very childish and immature thing to do for someone you age in the first place. you must have known that something like this would happen, and that no good would come out of you and your cousin posing as other ppl to spy on a guy. there is the possibility that he put 2 and 2 together and knows it was you. if this is the case, then its obvious that he is not going to want to talk to you - and rightly so. first of all you and your cousin need to delete the profiles. leaving them up there will only cause more trouble and may lead back to you. second of all, you need to get in touch with this guy - can you call over to him? you need to talk to him. but let me just tell you that you constantly texting and calling him, knowing that something is wrong conveniently when "fake you" did all this is really not very subtle. if the guy has any brains he probably knows its you and thinks your crazy.
you need to grow up, cop on and realise that you cant do this to ppl!!
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reader, LilzDon'tKnow  +, writes (9 August 2008):
 He's probably hurt because he apparently he really like dthat girl (this is my opinion im no expert) but you should probably just give him time and space. he'll come back around, just as long as he doesn't find out it was you the whole time he wont have any harsh feelings against you. Personally i wouldn't tell him until he is completely over the girl. and i would tell him eventually because frendship depends on trust. but keeping that from him would ruin the trust fund so... just give him time. When he starts comming around take him to the movies or sompin.It'll be ok
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