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30-35,
*taceycake
writes: So I dunno how to start this or what to say tbh. I know this might sound stupid, but oh well.There is this guy i've spoke to for ages now, must be 2 years at least maybe longer or shorter..but anyway he is the nicest guy i've ever met and is really caring. He puts himself down like all the time but he really has no reason to. He is everything i'd look for in a guy..nice, good looking, funny. Thing is he lives in Newcastle and I live in Derby so it is kinda a long way, but I have fell for him. I dunno what to do. I find myself thinking about him most the time, he makes me smile and he is there when I need somebody to talk to. I have told him but he just goes on about the distance. Helppp. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (23 September 2009):
Be a bit careful with this guy. If he's putting himself down a lot, then he hasn't got much confidence, which can be bad in a relationship, especially a long distace one. You don't want to end up the shoulder to cry on and nothing else. There's no problem with keeping on contact with him. But I would suggest that you at least socialize around in Derby so you're not stuck at the computer. x
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