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anonymous
writes:Me and Tyler met about three years ago. We dated for the first couple of months that we met but soon finished due to our age. We have always been friends and tend to meet up a couple times a month to hang out. The last few months we have been speaking online, via phone and meeting up much more often than ever before. I hadn't really thought about Tyler as boyfriend material untill recently. For a few weeks now i have been asking myself what i really think about Tyler and whether i feel for him more than just a friend. I do, i am in love with him and always have been, i could just never see it untill now, i want to spend all my time with him. I have been planning on meeting with Tyler and telling him how i feel, untill two days ago, he told me he is in a relationship with a girl he met a couple months ago. He's told me he's happy and i don't want to ruin that by telling him the truth. I can't carry on like everything is normal when im with him, but i can't tell him how i really feel and put he's current relationship in risk. Please help me to find an answer to my problem. Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2008): that's a tough choice, but I would tell him how you feel. if you two have been talking and hanging out a lot more recently then maybe he kind of has feelings for you too but maybe just doesn't quite realize it. if you tell him how you feel and he doesn't feel the same way then it shouldn't ruin his current relationship. if he wants to be with her he's going to be with her regardless, but he might want to be with you but doesn't think you want the same thing. I've learned from experiences that if you want something you got to go for it. life is full of risks, sometimes you just have to take those risks and hope it works out, but if you don't you might find yourself wondering "what if" for the rest of your life
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