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female
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36-40,
*helle 28
writes:I am 28 and always been hard to please. I have had mutiple partners and have only had 3 orgasams thru actual intercouse without having to give a helping hand. Is this normal?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 June 2013):
 very normal.
I'm 53 and have had lovers and partners in the triple digits and it's happened ONCE for me. A fluke totally.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2013): You're lucky to be in the minority of women who can climax through intercourse alone. For most women, this has never happened.Now that you know that it is physically possible for you, think about when it happened and try to mirror that.- How did you feel about the partner/s you were with when it happened? safe, loved, excited, relaxed, naughty etc. Identify what about that emotional dynamic really did it for you.- What positions were you in when it happened? For example my partner makes me climax 9 times out of 10 with the CAT position. Find out what works for you.- Don't put pressure on yourself to make it happen again. Relax and focus on the sensation. Worrying about climaxing will only make it harder to relax.Good luck and happy loving!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2013): More normal than you can imagine. Don't worry.
I've been with quite a few women in the past and none of them were capable of getting vaginal orgasms. Neither with me nor with their ex partners.
But that's why toys are made :)
By the way, work on your mind. If you concentrate, you WILL get orgasms very easily.
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