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writes: I've never cum when I'm having sex... the only time I have cum is when I do it myself with him helping out... any suggestions? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, deqwan +, writes (26 October 2008):
Well... Dis is how I see it. 2much sex can get boring. Depends how you and others see it. Make ur sex life wanting and trust babe that alone should tickle your needs. Also try foreplay how ever you like thats your choice. Take time 2 enjoy each others touch. Rush sex is a turn off. Wats the point...
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (26 October 2008):
The anonymous reader below offers good insight, in my opinion.
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reader, Crowson_punk +, writes (26 October 2008):
This is not always the easiest thing to advise on!!!I would guess your partner may not be the most adventurous lover, but, if you cum when he helps you he does know where to go.This points towards it being about the positions you use and what part of your vagina his penis rubs on! The trick is to get him to find your g-spot with his fingers and take note of where it is. Usually its on the top somewhere around the first inch or so (well, thats where i generally find it..) [url]http://www.crystaladultpleasures.com/gspotfemalepage.htm[/url] has a good diagramfrom there it's just a case of moving around until you find a position that alllows him to rub against it. I tend to find that if you bring your legs up and around his back/over his shoulders if you can, then that usually works. if not then from behind is a very good way to nail it first time!just have fun. sex is all about playing and experimenting. have a root around online for advice, or go buy a sex manual! heck even porn is a good way to catch new positions and ideas!Jon.
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