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I've never been a needy person, so I'm not expecting him to spend every minute with me...

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Question - (14 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 August 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hello I need some help here, I have been dating this guy for almost 6 months, we are exclusive to eachother and we have strong feelings for each other. we live one hour and a half appart in train so that's why we will see eachother normally 2 times a week, sometimes one time, but we never skip a single week. So now I will be moving just 30 minutes away from him, I am not doing this because of him, I am doing it because now I live in the suburbs and i hate it, so i am moving to the big city.

my concern here is that he wouldn't want to see me more than 2 times a week, we have different economical backgrounds, I have a career and a very nice and demanding job, in his case he is still student even though he is older than me.

I want to clarify that I have never been a needy person, i am not expecting him to spend every minute of his single time with me. So should i am scare that he has fall in the pattern of seeing eachother 1 or 2 times a week and didn't want to change it, even when he has told me that it would be really nice when we will be closer.

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (14 August 2008):

hlskitten agony auntHi

I bet he will want to see more of you when you move nearer no doubt about that. You have both had to get used to the way it is at the moment, but thats going to change.

Will be fun!

C xxxx

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (14 August 2008):

DoubleM agony auntSo . . . what is the question? That being closer is something that he would not like? It should be fine unless he is servicing other girlfriends.

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