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male
age
30-35,
*ego
writes:i love my cousin since we were little kids and know nothing about anything and since i was kid i was some how selfish i loved only my self (now i am changed 180 degree i put my self in last position) but at the same time i loved her more than any one in the world and i felt that she felt the same when she had any problem she comes to me but i was too shy to confess my love.by time we grew up until high school and she had a boyfriend and everybody know but me but i felt it she is not the same with me like before now i barely know stuffs about her but every day when i am alone i cant stop thinking about her and what i did wrong and what is wrong with me. i tried to make a move but i feel like the whole world is against me. now i know for sure that she move up but i cant do the same every time i see a girl with her name or look like her or see 2 people in love i cant stop thinking about her i dont know what to do should i tell her or not what if i have a chance? i cant think that one day she will have a family with out me i cant think about go to her wedding with another guy the problem is i am sure that she loved me so what changed
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2012): It's always terrible to be in love and lose. I think it's harder if you are cousins. You know that one cannot be replaced. You do have my sympathy. You are not the only one, and there is nothing at all wrong with you except your broken heart. Around here there is a terrible prejudice against being in love with cousins. I think that misunderstanding has caused a lot of the tragic differences we have.
If you are in love with her, I'd say tell her.
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