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51-59,
*evazoe31
writes:Hi could you please give me some advice on this please,I met my boyfriend through his female friend,I became friends with her also,because I discovered he was on porn I wstarted chatting to her as I didn't have no one else,because of me being 6yrs older than him,I didn't think I was good enough with him watching porn and googling woman on or off tv,then I discovered that he slept with her she is 14years older than me,she has very large breasts and she use to come into the house flunt them in our face especially his,this has made me realize that I made myself sick for what.I sort of feel dirty now and lost a my self respect towards him now help.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (15 October 2014):
 Zevazoe, I see that you have 2 other questions about this same man and it seems that your relationship is very troubled and you have your own family troubles as well.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-partner-looks-at-other-women-whenever-we.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-treats-me-like-one-of-his.html
Have you considered asking him to move out?
You say you are a carer for your autistic son, but you also said that your son lives with his dad in that other question. You wrote "I am a carer of 35hrs a weeks lookin after my son with the autism" but also wrote "my youngest son decided he didn't want to know me and went and moved in with his biological father I see him now and again " So do you see him now again or are you a care-giver to him? He's 23 and lives with his dad.
I think you have low self-esteem and should try to find some work so that you can pay for things yourself. If you aren't seeing your son but only "now and again" as you put it then there are many other hours in the day.
I would ask the boyfriend to move out, get a job and start working on your self-esteem through counseling or therapy.
I would contact this group http://www.citizensadvice.org.uk you find the local bureau by following this link here http://www.adviceguide.org.uk .
It's time that you start to rebuild your life, so get that communication with them started today.
Best wishes.
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