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anonymous
writes: i have seem to have lost my sex drive and it has now effected my relationship with my boyfriend why would this be?
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (23 January 2006):
People can "lose" their sex drives for many reasons both physical and emotional. You should probably seek the advice of a doctor first, this way you can get a complete check up and make sure you don't have a physical reason for not wanting sex. After you are cleared by a doctor, if you still have a problem then you should evaluate your emotional situation. Are you happy in your relationship? Has your boyfriend done anything to upset you? Even things that seem not so bad to our conscious minds can sometimes affect our subconscious making it difficult to connect with our partners on an intimate level. Have things just become boring? Sometimes you need to spice things up to get back into the swing of things. Try going out on a romantic date with your boyfriend, maybe dinner and a movie, be brave and try a scary movie that way you can cuddle up to your boyfriend the whole time. Good luck.
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