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writes: well lets see, i dont really know how to say this but i think i need some serious help, me and my gf are really tight and we have talked about everything in her and mine pasts...she is the most beautiful and sweetest person to ever come in my life and we are so in love that we are planning on marriage. But, i sometimes get horrible thoughts and visions of what she told me about her sexual past..like having a 3some once and being abused stuff like that, i generally put these out of my head and try not to think on them as it hurt her when i mention things that she herself regrets of doing..but i am being so terribly enraged and upset at times thinking about her and her past lovers that my rage gets out of control and it gets so bad that i even injured a few of my opposing team players in the football field a couple days ago...how do i get my head straight? i cant seem to take those thoughts out knowing she hid nothing from me its getting far more difficult to talk to her...please advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2006): Well, we all have a past, some of us choose not to tell all just in case of the outcome. I think you are so lucky to have such an honest and trusting gf. She told you stuff that she thought you wanted to hear. Personally i wouldn't of done that. She trusted you to be able to handle that sort of information. If you can't handle it then you shouldn't of asked her to tell you. Try and put it in a box and leave it there, it's the PAST. You two are together now and are planning a FUTURE so i hope you can bury it where it belongs.
Take care and be careful what you ask her to tell you in future, it might not be what you want to hear or what your brain can handle.
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