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writes:Okay, my last post didn't exactly help for several reasons such as not many people posted and some of those who did post clearly didn't understand that it isn't illegal to have sex with your cousin, get them pregnant or even marry them and yet it is still considered unacceptable by most.My problem is that a while ago I had sex with my cousin on the sofa whilst getting rediculously drunk at her birthday part and going back to her place. We are both 19 and she lives with her twin sister away from their parents.I went to see her a couple of days ago to try and sort things out and everything started going okay, we sat down, had a talk and she seemed to understand that although I found her really attractive, it just wouldn't be right and people would judge us wrongly.After that we went to watch some tv and she sat next to me on the sofa. We were completely sober this time and yet within the space of about 15 minutes she had snuggled up to me and had her hand placed on my thigh quite near my crotch and within another 5-10 minutes of that she had her hand on my crotch and was talking about telling her twin sister about what happened between us and asking if she wanted to join in. I was really freaked out at first but to cut to the chase after her telling me she was just joking, within no time at all she had lured me in to her bedroom and I was lying on my back on her bed and we were going at it for a good couple of hours.I know it's perfectly legal but she's like a drug. She looks stunning, she's funny, I love spending time with her and the sex is the best I've ever had, plus if I'm going to be honest, there is that sense of tabboo.I know she can tell I feel a bit uneasy about it all because she keeps telling me it is just between us and nothing more has to come from it apart from sex, but I can't stop thinking about her. What should I do? Please help me!
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reader, Mr wolf50  +, writes (27 May 2009):
It is totally wrong, legally it is called incest, morally it is unaceptable. If you had a fun loving good looking Mom or sister, would you have sex with her? I think not, it is still incest. Put a stop to it now and go find a woman that is not your relative.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionin regard to the annonymous female's comment, no i havnt socially fucked her or anything since then. and as for stars comment thats cos it was me on the last one - this is a follow up
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): you could also see this post-
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-had-sex-with-my-cousin--what-should-i-do-next.html
which looks soooo similar...
think you are fool - go tell your parents what you have done and hers. lets see how legally proud they are for you.
star.x.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009): Do you SOCIALLY plan to shag her?
via con dios
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2009): The message in your post and the message you gave in your reply have two different meanings. Your original message asked what you should do. Your message in your reply asked how people generally see this.
You already know how most people view this, so posting your question/comment here is redundant and meaningless. Unless you live in a place of the world where you have little contact with common society, it would not make sense for you to ask the question of whether this is acceptable or not.
Ultimately, this is how you feel. Others will always have their own ideas. Why would it matter how others feel when you already do it? The rhetoric 'answers' "Society does not and should not dictate your person life, so long as it does no harm to the other person and yourself."
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIm not looking to cause controvosy as you put it and I'm not after attention and yes I do want to have sex with her but I am just looking for peoples views on the topic to see if it is as socially unacceptable as I think it is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2009): You don't need our advice, you know exactly what you're doing.
You just need to decide.
Honestly, it seems like you're just looking for a bit of attention or controversy. Sorry
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