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*amsidol4
writes:Well, the other night at a concert i got this girls number and have yet to call her. i mean i like her and all, she is an awesome girl, but i don't know if she likes me back, you know wat i mean. i asked for it and she gave it to me. but i dont know what to say or anything. i'm horrible with girls, only had one and I'm 16. Please help me, I'm thinking of calling her tonight. If you've got any advice it would be greatly appreciated. Please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, bamsidol4 +, writes (25 January 2007):
bamsidol4 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well, last night right, my friend who is a girl called (but I don't think she did) and she said she didn't like me. I think she didn't call her because on the call log it said 5:42 and on the time it said 5:23 when she gave me the phone back. And I'm still not sure if I should call her or not, I'm not good with girls. And I think she likes me because of something she did at the concert. We were like 5 feet away and she pulled my hand to her. What should I do? I want to call her, but I just don't know!
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reader, violentviolet  +, writes (24 January 2007):
 CALL HER!!
She's probably sitting by her phone waiting for you, and besides you have nothing to lose!
Just ask her if she wants to do something over the weekend. Simple.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (24 January 2007):
 I bet she's sitting by her phone right now willing it to ring and asking all her friends why he hasn't called her yet. Take a chance and pick up the phone. I'm sure you'll get the response you're hoping for.
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reader, Nikita +, writes (24 January 2007):
 Hi there, I remember being sixteen, a long time ago and feeling this way. She must like you a little to give you her number so thats an start now you have to bite the bullet and call her. You will be nervous of course but i imagine she will be too. Ask her if she'd like to go out to another concert or to the cinema or whatever. Just say. "hi, its ***, how are you, listen I was wondering, do you fancy going out with me to ******". Take it from there okay. If she says yes then great and if she says no then chalk it down to experience. I really hope she says yes and that you have a great time. Good luckx let me know what she says!
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (24 January 2007):
 The fact that she gave you her number indicates that she is at least remotely interested. If she told you to get lost, then you would know where she stands.
My best advice is to try and be yourself. Hopefully, you're not a serial killer. LOL.
The 2nd best advice is to talk about things that interest her. People love to talk about themselves. If you let her tell you what she likes to do, where she likes to go, etc., etc., it will keep her from being bored. People rarely get bored with what they have to say. Since you met her at a concert, follow up with that. Ask her how she liked the concert, who her favorite group is, what kind of music she likes, etc. Let her talk, and listen to what she has to say. The conversation should flow from there. The least number of times you say "I", the better.
Good luck!
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