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writes:Hey Guys, So here goes.I'm a 16 (almost 17) Year Old atractive female. My 17 year old boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months now and I'm very happy. Although... I have only had one other Semi "serious" boyfriend, Being sexualy active is something i have yet to experience. My boyfriend on the other hand, Is extremly expieranced, and has had what seems to me like an ungodly amount of sexualy partners. ( At his age anyway.)(he's been tested for std Since we've been together, all clean.)Anyways, I know i love him.I know for you adults you think its just a silly highschool hook up. But it's not.he sais, he knows im better, differant then the other girls hes been with. he sais he know the differance between hooking up, and loving someone and i showed that to him. I'm almost his first "girlfriend"He Just Hooked up with everyone. Which, bothers to me. I don't know why. It's not like Im repulsed by him, in any way, but i can't see myself going out and giving my body away. But I do understand hes a 17 year old boy.I tottaly get how thats differant.He completely respects me, and respects my standards. He's never pressured me, and sais its fine if we dont have sex. (For Now Anyways.)He's told me he wants to fool around though, he sais, "Your my girlfriend. It's not a crime." which again i know is tottaly fine, and true.I Think im just worried, I mean i have no idea what i'm doing.He's been with so many people i just dont want to let him down.hes so important to me. really. he's went down on me a couple times, and everytime, i know hes dissapointed i dont in return.its really not like i dont want to. i honestly think if he wasent so "Experienced" It wouldent be so hard for me to be Intimate because i want to be.I'm not religious or anything. I just have Boundaries, For Now.I Really do love him, and i want him to know it. I know i dont have to be sexually active for him to know i love him.i just want to show it in a phyisical way.Help Please?
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (23 May 2009):
 There's nothing wrong with having boundaries. If you don't feel comfortable, don't do it. Don't be afraid to say no and wait. A guy that respects you will be completely fine with it.
Physically, you can kiss, hug, whatever you feel comfortable with. Don't worry about living up to some standard. Nobody is a star their first time out.
If you do decide to have sex, please make sure you use protection. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): Actually, this guy sounds like a slimeball. Do you think it's at all possible that he got with some of those other girls by feeding them the same lines he's now using on you? Absolutely. Please DO NOT let him pressure you into doing anything you don't want or aren't ready for, even if it isn't full sex.
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