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writes: ok this is quite embarrassing but im sure its normal. but i have har growing on my bottom and i saw my bottom in the mirror the other day when i got out of the shower and it really looked freaky. i was just wondering what should i do about it? should i shave it off or wax it or what? please what should i do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (27 July 2009):
You're totally normal, my dear. So I wouldn't worry about it. But, if it skeeves you out and you really want to get rid of it, don't shave it!! The hair growing back will drive you crazy, it'll be itchy and uncomfortable. Definitely get it waxed if you want to ditch the hair. Besides, with waxing after you do it enough times, the hair grows in thinner and thinner until maybe you won't mind it so much anymore.
But really, most guys have some hair on their backsides. It's completely normal! Good luck!
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (27 July 2009):
If it bugs you, go by a hair removale prodcut (Nair is an brand avalible in the US) - put it on before taking a shower, let it sit and wash it and your hair down the drain. Keep it OFF your tender bits, or it could burn! Your bottom will look like it did when you were 2!
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (27 July 2009):
avoid shaving, as stuble is not comfortable (trust the voice of experience here). get over it, not only is it common how often do you have to look at your arse (in other words you have a choice). waxing is a bit weird although trendy (yet again though-why?). if you were a woman it might contravene social convention a little bit but even then who is going to look at your arse and why do you think it matters. everyone is different but often men have hairy arses.
its only annoying when wiping your arse or their is so much hair that anal penetration becomes unmanageable but both these problems can be solved with perseverance and common sense: 1 shower daily, 2 use loads of lube.
good luck
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