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writes:My BFFL and I both like this guy, but he has a girlfriend. My BFFL doesn't know I like this guy, but I know she likes him (she told me). This guy likes me but, like I said, he has a girlfriend. You might be thinking "If he dumps his GF, and asks you out SAY NO! He's a jerk." Well, he's not. HE is one of the smartest, nicest boys in my grade. I kind of want to tell my friend, but I'm not sure because he doesn't like her, so please please help. P.S. I'm friends with his girlfriend.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (9 December 2010):
 You only young and trust me boys will come and go as mice as he my seem now but friends really can last forever, if you get with this guy you stand to lose two friends and when this guy is gone well you will be left looking silly, this is only my advice as always its up to you what you do just think long and hard first =]
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (9 December 2010):
 For one you're getting ahead of yourself, you don't even know if he's going to break up with his girlfriend for you. If that does happen then he asks you out..you're going to have to choose between him or your 2 friends. 2 for the price of one. When I was your age, I valued friendships more than anything. The saying "Boys will come and go but your friends will always stick around" is very true even to this day. But, you sound like you'd rather trade in 2 long term friendships for one relationship that's bound to be short lived. If that's what you want then go right ahead but don't say I didn't warn you.
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reader, cupcake3 +, writes (9 December 2010):
Well I've had this situation too.. Honestly i know he might be smart and everything, but its not worth getting between u and ur friend
1. If u dont tell her and date him, ur not gonna be friends
2. If u tell her u like him, shes gonna be mad
3. If she dates him, ur gonna be mad..
*The best thing to do is tell her that you like him too, you have for a while and that he likes you too. BUT whether he breaks up with his gf or not, u will not date him. Its not worth it and it will make ur friendship stronger
HOPE THIS HELPS
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reader, Nime +, writes (9 December 2010):
 Bros over hos. While you both like the same guy, I'd say you both agree neither should have this guy given the opportunity because it would inevitably cause a rift in your friendship. I've made this agreement with friends before. I've also had two good friends in college decide not to date my twin brother because they were worried it would come between our friendship. Good friends are hard to find and they're not worth ruining over a guy you like who you may or may not even remember in a year. And your friend is, after all, your best friend for life, isn't she? You don't want to lose her.
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