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writes: HeyI think I have developed a crush on one of my sisters friends. I'm 18 and the crush is 17 BTW. I think it's a crush anyway. I go all shaky whenever I talk to her over the internet via msn and I see her every now and then when my sis invites her over. I'm always really down when she leaves. I would do something about it but there are two things holding me back:1. I told my sister at one stage and she said it would be a bad idea, cause its one of her friends whom she shares heaps of secrets with and talks about boys with and that it would be awkward if she had to talk about me with her etc...2. She has a boyfriend, that she is very close to (e.g on one of those friend network things she dedicated a photo album to him). I told her once how I felt and she said she found me a cool guy but that she had a bf.So I really don't know what to do. I know that I want to ask her out (again). But it might not be the right thing to do.I think about her a lot but I don't want to cause any bad things to happen eitherThank you.
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reader, camille  +, writes (31 May 2006):
 I'm sorry but you told her how you feel & she already gave you her answer. Maybe if she didn't have a boyfriend, things could be different. Put yourself in her bf's shoes, how would you feel if you found out that your gf was being hit on by another guy? Maybe it's time to back off, keep your feelings hidden, stay friends but respect her relationship.
As for your sister, I disagree, if you and her friend were to find that you both wanted to be together, she shouldn't stand in your way.
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