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writes: can this be posted, i only got one reply last time which wasnt very good. do you think i may be in love??? a few years ago i went out with this girl at my school for 6 months but we broke up due to harrasment from other people. her friend asked me if i still liked her. i lied by saying no because ever since i have gone out with her i dream of her several times per week and think of her every hour. i have no interest in any other girls apart from her. she will glance at me and flick her hair. (those gorgeous eyes) she reminds me of one of the olsen twins. lol. but i have never had the guts to ask this girl out again. i am thinking on calling her house in the summer and asking her out that way but would this give wrong impressions? my other option is to ask her friend to give me the girls number. what can i do???
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (31 May 2006):
 Dear Reader,
she fell for you once, she obviously liked you or she wouln't have gone out with you in the first place. I'd call round on a nice Summers' day, dressed nice (not smart or nerdy, just a slightly tidier you)and if she says yes, well, good for you. If she says no, don't look upset, just be cool, be calm.
I think you are most definately attracted to this girl, you like her a lot. I am not sure if you are truly in love but I think there is a tiny spark of love there that has lit a flame of attraction - if you get my meaning!
Hope this Helped and You get your girl,
Phoebe
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reader, camille +, writes (31 May 2006):
 I'm not sure if you're in love but you've definitely got the hots for her! I don't know why you suffered harrassment from other people, that's a shame. Perhaps they were being immature or were jealous? The fact that you lied to her friend about still liking her shouldn't put you off. Just tell her you were trying to move on with your life. Maybe her friend was asking because this girl still likes you too and wanted to find out how you feel? You've nothing to lose by asking? Take a deep breath and go for it! If she says no, you're no worse off. Time is slipping away so don't wait, someone else may beat you to it! If it's meant to be you can come over the harrassemnt. Hopefully there'll be none this time. If you do get together, rise above it. Show people you're tougher than that and stick it out together. Good Luck!
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