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36-40,
*anet29
writes:hi, i think my brother in law got a crush on me. before i used to hate him for things he had done and trying to come between me and my husband. now all of a sudden he is being nice to me. we never used to talk but now he is holding conversation with me and being nice. now i think i have a crush on him. i dont know what to do. i often fantascies about me and him having secret affairs even though its not right and it is really low for me to do. what to do please tell me and hes also have bad choice in women...
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reader, janet29 +, writes (31 December 2012):
janet29 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all for your views. i am now having fantasies and dreams of me and him. i think this is a temptation of the devil. i am having confusing feelings for him. i am controlling my actions but in my head its crazy. i think if he have any feeling towards me and decides to show it and come on to me i would be weak to him.i am fighting every day to be strong, but this stupid thing in my head is driving me crazy. lastnight i dreamt we were having sex.why me and the hardest thing we all live in the house. oh my God i wish this would go away. i need your help.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 December 2012):
 maybe he's being nice to you because it's the holiday season and it's good for the family.
whatever YOU do, do not have an affair of any kind (physical or emotional) with your BIL.
fantasy is fine... it's in your head... and that's OK... but DO NOT ACT ON IT.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (21 December 2012):
 Well.... NOW you get to see if he REALLY has "bad taste in women"..... by whether or not he hits on - and succeeds with - YOU!!!!!!
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reader, Candid Cally +, writes (21 December 2012):
If he tends to choose unsuitable partners, use self-control to not become one of them as well.
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