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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I think I've fallen in love with a really close friend. His dad and my dad are best friends so we've grown up together but now that I'm 15 and he's 16 and we've grown up from running about the back garden playing football I genuinely think I'm in love with him. I don't mean all giggly and blushing I mean I would without a second thought spend my life with him. He makes me laugh so much, I can completely be myself around him, and we know each other inside out. I don't know what to do though. He's always been quite protective of me and he never thinks any boy is ever good enough for me and he can be quite flirty sometimes but I don't know if he feels the same way. Do I just love him as a friend? Is it possible he could feel the same way or am I friendzoned? What should I do about these feelings?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2013): I happen to know exactly how you feel. I'd suppose you should throw hints at him. If he picks up on these hints and admits to liking you then go for it, if he totally blows it off by saying like "we're friends and I don't want to ruin our friendship. I love you but not in a romantic way," then move on. Obviously you'll still love him, but you can't be sad about your situation... Accept it and get through it. And remember, THROW HINTS... He'll know what you're getting at but you won't be out right and to the point in case of rejection. It's better that way. I do hope he feels the same :-)
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