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writes:How do you know if your boyfriend is cheating?We are an hour away from each other but see each other on the weekends. Durring the week he hangs out with his so called "home-girl." Is this home girl more than a friend even though he says it isn't? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007): Personally I would surprise him one day with a visit and say how much you missed him but tell him not to change his plans on your account you can just tag along - really closely watch his reaction. This process will help you decided but I agree with others who have posted here - gut instinct is rarely wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007): You can tell if he is cheating cause he acts sketchy, like he won't pick up the phone. Or you can't reach him for a long period of time. You get voicemail alot. You never know where he is. He makes up alot of excuses, alot of lies. He doesn't call when he says he is going to call. That's usually how you can tell. That is what would give it away for me.
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reader, jaimeamour22  +, writes (13 September 2007):
advice if you feel he is cheating well follow what your heart says and i doubt you shall be wrong , move on and dont look back , if you feel that way and its deeply engrained well your right , dont be angry just tell yourself its not worth the pain xxxx jaime
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007): What actually do you mean by home girl? Just someone he hangs out with? I would be paranoid too! perhaps the next time you see him you shold ask him about it? Or maybe... this is really bad but you could try and look at his text messages? as long as you know you won't be caught, but then theres the whole privacy issue etc etc.
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