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writes:i've had feelings for a 39 year old woman for 2yrs now. i realized it after she had gotten divorced but she also has a 10yr old daughter. but she's not the only older woman i'm having feelings for cuz i've also got feelings for a 33yr old mother of four that is the daughter of a fellow church member at my church. i really need help with these two
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2009): i know how you feel.age should not be such a truble when we fall in love.we cannot really control that,as i experience it myself before.6 years back as 27 years o age i fell in love with a 64 year old man.i got pregnant by him,but then i had to leave to another country.i have 5 kids,and a 14 year old boy,my son friend fell in love with me,he told me that when he was 15,now when he is 16 we in love with each other so much,that i know i could not love sombody else that much.i never was a slut or sleeping arround,i divorced my husband years ago,raising kids on my own.however we waiting with love making when he will be 17,as i want to be sure that he will not regreat that.it would killl us both if someone split us up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2009): Hey man, I read your post..Honestly...dude, you're going to get a bunch of responses about this kind of age difference can work for a meaningful relationship, etc. This is what I advise...Every young guy goes through the "cougar phase." But you tap it, then leave it - most older woman can appreciate this kind of arrangement. They will teach you shzz.A long-term thing in this situation is not going to work.You're early 20's man, any chance of having a kid(s) with these women ain't going to happen. Secondly, they look decent now but once you get close to 30, TRUST ME, you're going to be wanting some of the younger ladies you never got a chance at.By the time you're 35, these chicks will be damn near or past 50. Not to mention the one with 4 kids - it ain't happening, bro. If it's a casual relationship go for it, but nothing serious!
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