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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:during last year school term break,i got a job at this food and beverage place.everything was normal.till three weeks ago,i started to develop feelings for my boss.he is plump and 29.totally not my type.suddenly it hit me that im in love with him.he makes me smile when im down and being around him makes me happy.i cant help but think about him all the time.whats more,he is married with 2 children,aged 6 and 3.i know he likes me too because he gave me hints.i tried to forget him but failed.what should i do?should i quit the job so i can move on?but if im not near him for 24hr i feel so down and lost.i dont intend to break up his marriage
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reader, nicola79  +, writes (26 February 2007):
 I mean this in the nicest way flower, he is not yours and it would be so wrong to split up a family with 2 children. You are young and will feel like this loads of times before you meet mr right.
What I always do when im in two minds about something is I always think what would I feel like if someone did that to me?
It is wrong and I think deep down you know it.
There is nothing wrong in a bit of flirting but it has to stop there love.
If my husband was giving another person the come on, I would chop his you know what off.
Do the right thing sweety,its in your hands. xxxxxxxxx
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reader, cd206 +, writes (26 February 2007):
 You don't need to quit your job if you can see this relationship for what it really is, just a crush. When we meet an older man who has responsibility and power it's natural for that to develop into a flicker of attraction but this guy is married and he's too old for you. Crushes are good practise for real life romantic rendezvous so just enjoy it knowing that it won't go anywhere.
CD
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