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writes:Okay so here's the deal.. I'm a 16 year old guy who happened to fall for a 13 year old girl. 1st Question: Is this very wrong and pediphiliac behaviour?I can honestly say that I'm not your quintessential teenage guy: I don't crave sex in relationships (I really couldn't care less for the physical intimacy) and I don't do drugs, not even consume alcohol. 2nd Question: Is it pedophiliac to be attracted to this girl's facial features? Like I mentioned earlier, I didn't fall for her physical assetes. Okay fine, if I were to be attracted to a 6 year old's face then yeah..3rd Question: She's my best friend's (a girl) sister. How do you think my friend would respond to this? Should I or should I not tell my friend?I'm not even going to take "wait a few years" for an answer. I really like this girl. Please help.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (2 April 2013):
 To the aunts trying to respond on this question; please note it is over 2 years old. I expect the issue has resolved by now, and with that being said, I'm asking for the question to be closed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2011): i would say if you like her then go for it..you said it yourself that you nit interested in sex so i see m=no harm in dating her
good luck
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reader, AKFH scribe +, writes (3 January 2011):
Dude yeah you need to tell her " Hey we cant do this" When she is 18 THEN give her a chance
- Keep it safe . AKFH
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2011): The law is the law mate. What you want is irrelevant in this instance. The law says you can't touch her, whether you or she wants to or not.
You don't break laws because it suits you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2011): I think you should tell your friend. Its the right thing to do. Im a 16yr old girl whom i have alot of guy friends. Im a sibling of 9 and id want my friend (s) to tell me if they liked one of my siblings. But i wouldnt mind. But your friend might. If not then ask what her sister thinks about you. Dont worry she isnt to young. my first bf was 12 and so was i.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni asked the girl i she'd dated anyone 3 years older than her, and she said yea
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reader, Dr.LanceMerryweather  +, writes (2 January 2011):
 No, nothing wrong here that I can see. You're both teenagers. You have no intentions of initiating a physical relationship. So, having a younger girlfriend shouldn't be a problem, all things being equal. But, as we all know, all things are rarely equal. Suppose she tries to initiate a physical relationship - how strong a person will you be under those circumstances? Certainly something to seriously consider before you make a decision.
Think very carefully my friend and good luck.
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reader, kenny +, writes (2 January 2011):
 when these sort of questions normally arise, i invarible going along the lines of age is only a number, that its how you both feel about each other is what counts. However thats when i am talking about people over the age of consent. In actual fact she is still a minor, a child at the tender age of 13. I know that 3 years is nothing in terms of age in normal circumstances, but when its with someone under the age of consent the gap becomes gargantuan. Im not sure how your best friend would take it, or indeed your other freinds for that matter. In a couple of years, like say when she is 16 and you are 19, then it will be a completely different scenario altogether. My advice would be to leave it, and if you and her are still single in say 3 years then persue it at that time.
Good luck
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