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writes: I am single male. I have been talking to a woman for last 9 months or so. She's got three kids and is separated. I had fallen in love for her and she is on the top of my head all the time.She used to call me all the time but she has stopped for the last month or so. I called her and she is kinda trying to avoid me though not completely. She returns my calls once in a while. I'm not only attached to her but also her kids. I asked her what are her expectations from me. She replied she don't know at this point of time. She has driven me crazy for her.I think about not bugging her that much but I couldn't resist myself. Please tell me why she is doing this to me? Maybe she is afraid that she will fall in love and then I will ditch her or something else. I'm very confused and my mind is not working. Please help me. Thanks in advance.
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reader, becky05 +, writes (26 July 2005):
It doesnt sound like this woman is ready for a relationship.
Leave her alone for a while then give her a call. I think it would be best if you remained friends for now.
Make sure that you get out and live your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2005): Nobody can tell you what she is thinking but I would recommend giving her space and distance so that she can see for herself what and whom she wants. As hard as this may seem, it is your only hope as far as I'm concerned.....be nice to her but don't smother her. This may be a good test to see if she'll miss you. Back away, help out only when it's necessary, contact only as necessary. If she sees that you're not available or a challenge to keep, you may get her attention. It sucks to have to play a head game with her but it might turn things around.
You can't force love and she may realize that you were the man for her after all once she has spent time alone to think about it...or she mught just view you as a good friend.
Be strong and let her go for now. Move on with your life and live anyways. That would be your best remedy at this point.
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