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*issprinsess2u
writes:I've been with my boyfriend 2 months I think I'm falling in love with him but I don't think he feels the same he said he hurts me? which i dont understand what that means and im hurting because he really wants me to tell him i love you because it makes him happy but it hurts me because im scared i wont get the same response what should i do?
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reader, Cristall +, writes (21 June 2007):
Princess 2 months into a relationship isn't enough time to determine weather your in love or not. You're still young and can eaisily mistake love with lust. Love doesn't come over night that's something that grows as your relationship grows take your time and don't rush into anything as of yet. Some people get into serious relationships because they think there in love and latter they find out they cant even be in the same room with each other. Can you imagine living together if that was the situation? And for him maybe he's not ready for the i love you thing and is not sure himself and because of that he is scared he will hurt you. Both of you need to take your time and for now just let eachother know you care for one another.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2007): heylisten im no agony aunt but if u want lads advice:coz we dnt say it doesnt ean we dnt mean itsome lads are embarrased about telling there partner they love them. the best thing i can advise is to talk to him and ask him how he feels. for example: get him when its just u and him and ask him to tell u how he feels about the relationship.xx
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reader, missprinsess2u +, writes (20 June 2007):
missprinsess2u is verified as being by the original poster of the question I meant to write heart not hurt sorry
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (20 June 2007):
 Talk to him about it and ask why he thinks he is hurting you. Maybe he thinks he's hurting you by not being ready to say I love you back, but you wont know until you ask him. Tell him how you feel and you may find he does feel the same way but is just shy about admitting it.
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