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writes:I don't know what to do anymore with my life.I have a boyfriend we're 3 years together, I love him I swear is true but in my life show up the other one...He is so cold, without emocions but I fell in love with him. And i betrayed my boyfriend. We were together 6 months and then he broke up with me,I don't know why he didn't told me.Now after one year, he show up again in my life and I am still crazy about him and I still have my boyfriend. Funny, isn't it? And now he is again with me,one month. And when I lay in his bead last night I realized how much I love him then I realized how much he doesn't love me. He is playing with me again and I am at "good way" to destroy my relationship with my boyfriend who love me so much. Help me, I dont know alone to find the way out of this hell! Help me, please!
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (21 May 2008):
 You're not NEAR in love with this OTHER GUY.. !!
You don't Love cheats... Love Ends when someone cheats you, all after that is a Compromise.. Many won't agree with my statement but it's true... !!
You need to understand that All you are doing is CHEATING on your Boyfriend.. Infact if you do think Most of the good guys (including me) would never be interested in you and you'd be left alone one day.. So plz don't be so Sexually crazy...
G'day
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (21 May 2008):
 You're going to have to be strong and wise and pick the one who is best for you, that is what I meant to say.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (21 May 2008):
Hi,
Which man would you really want in the future? The one who breaks up with you for no reason that he can explain, or the one who has loved you for 3 years?
Which one is the honorable man? You must think logically about this and be certain that you are sure of your choice.
The one who came back to you with no explanation sounds like he is just playing with your emotions. He did not give you a good reason for breaking up and now he's back. So you must decide which one you really want.
It is not fair to the one who has been faithful to you to treat him in this way, so if you decide that you want the exboyfriend, then tell him and let him go, so that he can find another girlfriend.
Or if you choose your current boyfriend, then stop seeing this other man.
There is not a good excuse to hurt someone, so please consider all sides before you make your choice.
All the best.
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