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writes: So I've been a little too persistent and needy probably in trying to get this girl back (we only dated for a couple months afterall). There's this other girl that I used to be interested in and now we've kind of resumed talking a little bit. I know this is not the right thing to do, and I could risk damaging my relationship with both women, but I really want to ask this new girl out and take her out to the restaurant where the other girl works just to make her jealous. Would this be too obvious?
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reader, LouLee  +, writes (13 July 2008):
 It probably wouldn't matter if she knew what you were doing.
As long as you gave her lots of eye contact and smiled i'm sure she'd like what you're trying to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOuch. OK, don't crucify me. The new girl is more of a casual hang out with guys type anyway, so if we just grabbed dinner, who knows if she would look into it much anyway. And I really, really care for the girl I dated and would do anything. I've often heard that jealousy is the most powerful human emotion, but I'm concerned that she would see right through it - but would it matter if she knew what I was doing?
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reader, LouLee +, writes (13 July 2008):
This could be good or bad, if she doesn't like you still, she'll be happy for you.
I suggest that if you are gonna go on this date, you have to be careful cos the lady you're with isn't gonna want to get hurt..
Much love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2008): Brilliant plan! I know nothing makes me hotter for a man than seeing him toy around with and use my fellow women! Gets me wet! All I can think is "Damn, I want that selfish, shallow jag-off for myself! I just hope he's as big an ass to me as I've seen him be to that girl"
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reader, Replacement  +, writes (12 July 2008):
 Don't play games with these women. To use this new woman to make your ex girlfriend jealous is immature, petty and rude. You're better than that. If you really like this new girl, then perhaps you could try to get to know her as a person, and move on from your ex. If you don't really like her then don't take her out and ESPECIALLY don't take her to your ex's restaurant, as it will make BOTH of the girls uncomfortable and might make you look like a bit of a skeaze. They will see right through you, guaranteed. Women are pretty perceptive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2008): This might work and it might not .
The girl could see that you artrying to make her jealous and then not like you at all for that and all your efforts will be work nothing or she could get jealous and come running back to you like you want . it could go either way and if the girl your using figures it out then she will get mad at you too.
so think about it before you do it .
hope this helped in some way
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