I've been seeing him for 3 months so why am I so nervous around him?

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Question - (1 December 2009)

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A female age 26-29, *rittbrat95 writes:

Hi, I am 14, and I am dating this guy, and I love him a lot, me and him have been dating for 3 months yesterday, November 30. and I am wondering how do I keep from being nervous with him?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2009):

If you really love him tell him. I dont think that just because youre still somewhat nervous around him will make it seem like you dont really love him. And as for that, if you want him to do that again with you just simply ask him. I'm sure he wont mind at all, trust me. As for the BJ, well ask him too, if youre brave enough to do it because it takes some courage to do that. If he says he would like you to do it then thats good, and if not, then wait some time until he decides to. Anyhow

Good Luck! :)

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A female reader, brittbrat95 +, writes (10 December 2009):

brittbrat95 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Ok, but I have yet to prove to him I love him more than anything. Me and him plan to grow up and get married. He has already been in my pants. We have not had sex, but he has "played" with me... I have yet to see his..."thing" and I am worried if I have become "addicted to him "playing" with me, and I want to give him a bj.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009):

I dont know if to agree with KANDIWRPR. My girlfriend says she is still somewhat nervous doing certain things that she wouldnt in front of other people. I gues it just depends on how you are, but i am not sure, i may ne wrong.

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A female reader, KANDIWRPR +, writes (2 December 2009):

its like that

that feeling of nervousness will go away

probably the more you hang out with him

or until like that 6 month or 5th...

its juust a phase

also before doing anything you will regret

dont say that you love each other

you are in that first stage of a relationship

later there will be problems..big problems

there always is

if you guys can last through all those problems

then thats good

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