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anonymous
writes:I moved out and he hired a maid. She met me during her interview while I was packing. They have had sex each time she comes in to do housekeeping (once a week) since I left. We've decided to get back together and I am moving back in. I managed the household and I will not be keeping her on. Being that they were having sex, who should tell her, and wrap things up with her, him or me?
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reader, KANDIWRPR +, writes (2 December 2009):
 what the hecK?you are ok with him having sex with that othergirl when you and him was still talking?arent you worry that no matter what he will cheat on you for that maid girl..he willif you are ok with everything and how there might be a chance of him still keeping a connection with the maid while you are with him then its his job to end it allend it infront of you__________________dont get back with himhe will surely keep contacting that girl when you are gone or when he "goes to work or out"
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): now ive read it all!!!! you dont have a problem that she is cleaning more than the house???? why not let her keep coming over then? after all the house would be clean and he wouldnt have to leave home to cheat. wow, umm if you decide to tell her i vote do it together. he should talk but you should be with him...wow, mal
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2009): he has the 'relationship' with her so as I see it, this is his job. If I were you i would like to know exactly what message he sent (body language & so forth) to avoid complications in the future. I vote both of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2009): he should tell her that she has to go in a way like this "we want you to go as we have no need for your services anymore", you should also be there holding your husbands hand as he does it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2009): So was she being paid to clean the house or....?
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