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*ayglow
writes:hi cupid i have been with my boyfriend for about a year a half and its all good but i lost my kids a year ago to there dad and i miss them very much and i have not seen them from when they left and do not know what to do i love my boyfriend but miss my kids who should i be with it hurt i care for his kids to live with us but i feel under a lot of stress please help Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (2 June 2008):
Threaten him with family court. It might scare him into talking to you and sorting it out. And if it doesn't then you may have to get someone to enforce your legal visiting rights.
He can't just keep them from you forever. Talk to the citizen's advice beaureax in town if you need legal advice.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, dayglow +, writes (2 June 2008):
dayglow is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmy children did not leave because of my boyfriend the kids loved him . i sent the kids to there dads for the school holidays and said to there dad at the end of the holidays we would talk and see where the children wanted to live but with in two weeks he had changed every thing like docs schools .i have tryed to get my ex to bring the kids to see my if i pay half the cost but he says no .i ask the kids if they would like to come see me and they say yes but i ring the next day and they dad tells me they do not what to come and stay it leaves me all over the place my head is a mess so unsure what to do
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (1 June 2008):
You make it sound like your boyfriend is the reason your kids got taken away.
If that is right then I would leave him and go back to be single and seeing your kids again. There must be some reason for him to be so unsuitable that your kids had to move out.
You gave birth to them so you need to put them first.
Good Luck!! xx
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