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writes:I'm nearly 60 years of age and I've been seriously propositioned by a woman of 23. I'm not sure what she sees in me, as I'm no oil painting but she is fantastic looking.I feel honoured, BUT - I'm worried I might not come up to expectations. Any advice or suggestions? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2007): Jerks. I am a 20 year old blond whom has had many male admirers. But I chose a 50 year old man to marry because I fell in love with him. He didn't have much money. Money didn't matter to me. Just because a young beautiful girl pursues an older gentleman doesn't automatically make her a gold-digger! I chose my husband because he is wise, sweet, smart, experienced in the ways of the world, interesting, funny, loving. He has an appeal that so many young men do not have. Do not write her off as a gold-digger. Give this a chance. There is a possibility that you could cut it off too soon and ruin something potentially wonderful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): Hi,my man is 29 years older than me, I am 33 and he is 62,we have been happy together for 4yrs.He isn't a sugar daddy as many would presume,I earn my own living and enjoy my independence.We were friends and then I had a family crises and he helped me through and frindship turned to physical which over a period of months repeated and became love.If you are on the same wave length and have good chemistry why fight it,why not enjoy it.We are very different in some things but the same in others,we both pursue our own interests seperately but relish our time together.We are incredibly happy together and have learnt to ignore the negative judgements from others.If you have concerns that she may be a gold digger then mention a pre nup to see her reaction although I can assure you that not all women are gold diggers!For me my relationship with my older man is my best by far.He has a calm,philosophical outlook I never found in younger guys.He treats me in a thoughtful,loving way and is confident in himself,all huge turn ons for a woman and things that many younger men lack.In the bedroom things are great,there it is the chemistry thats important not the numbers on a birth certificate.Some women like same/similar age,some like a toyboy but some prefer the qualities of an older man so don't be shocked if you have a very happy future together,people are people not their birth certificates and if you have love embrace it!Good luck!
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (6 September 2007):
 As long as you are both single and there are no other reasons why you would not want to be in any relationship with her, I don't see it as a problem. If YOU see it as a problem, it could become a problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2007): She probably is looking for a sugar daddy.
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reader, redballetshoes +, writes (6 September 2007):
You need to think about why this much younger woman is propostioning you. You say you are unsure what she sees in you, but maybe you are being a bit hard on yourself.
Maybe you should try getting to know her a bit first, to see what her real intentions are.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (6 September 2007):
 Do you have lots of money?
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