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*ittymeow
writes:Hello, My friend recently had a baby with her boyfriend. Shes 19 and so is he. At the time she concieved she had gone through a surgery for weight loss. She didnt take birthcontrol because she was told that being over weight there was less chance to get pregnant.I'm guessing they used condoms most of the time I hope. At the same time she was having problems with her boyfriend relationship wise. What I'm wondering is if a girl can subconsciencly want to get pregnant to trap a boyfriend?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2007): it happens all the time, and yes for all the wrong reasons at the kid's expense.
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reader, kittymeow +, writes (9 September 2007):
kittymeow is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWow...that sucksI really think my friend tryed to trap him.I have NEVER seen a "early" pregnancy in life work out where the family stayed together and so on It just doesnt work..a guy doesnt know what he wants with life at that age! well anyone at a young age its just sad... I agree with "A women who does not want a baby knows exactly what to do to prevent pregnancy."
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): My friend is giving birth in October. Her boyfriend is flirty with other girls and cheated on her about 3 months ago - had sex with another girl.I think the 'accident' wasn't an accident because she always seemed to say 'He's mine! Nobody else will split us up because we love each other' I suspected it wasn't all hunky dorey and now she's pregnant and he's still flity/cheating. Getting pregnant doesn't really solve anything because she probably thinks hes trapped now, but she still lets him get away with the cheating.
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reader, kittymeow +, writes (6 September 2007):
kittymeow is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhumm well thanks for the replys i would like more replys i was trying to explain this to her the other day but it just pissed her off of course i guess you just have to keep this to your self
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2007): YESSSSSSSS!!!!!I for one do not believe there is any such thing as an accidental pregnancy. Unless of course your contraceptives fail, and when used properly they are verrrry effective. A women who does not want a baby knows exactly what to do to prevent pregnancy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2007): YES!
I totally believe it from what I've seen of my friends & co-workers & stuff.
When it comes to accidental pregnancies, I swear they happen more often when the relationship is coming apart than when it's still working. And usually when the guy is pulling away.
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